Read This Before You Join a New York Bondage Club

For a city as big as New York, you'd be right in assuming that there's equally as big bondage and BDSM scene full of sex clubs and BDSM clubs. From Pandora's Box to Paddles, there are top-rated BDSM clubs dotted throughout the five boroughs of New York, each one with its unique offerings and flare. If you happen to find yourself in New York, and you want to jump headfirst into the NYC sex scene, you'll certainly find yourself with plenty of options when it comes to sex clubs. Read this article first to get an idea of what to expect from sex places in New York City and which sex clubs are best to avoid.

The Best BDSM Clubs in New York City

New York City has long been heralded as the capital of underground sex clubs. If you've got a fetish and you don't know how to satisfy it, you can go to New York, where you'll find an organized sex club or nightclub that is based around your biggest urges. BDSM is, of course, no exception, and out of all the experimental sex clubs you can find in New York, you're probably going to find bondage and BDSM-related clubs more than anything else. A New York sex club isn't exactly hard to find. Some of the sex clubs are conspicuous and advertise themselves on Google as being 'BDSM-friendly.' In contrast, other sex clubs, perhaps for a good reason, must keep their business more clandestine and don't advertise their top-secret sexual practices anywhere.

With this vast array of sex clubs to choose from, it's difficult to determine where first to go – especially if you're only just getting into BDSM clubs and are not exactly well-seasoned to the extreme versions of the fetish. Before hitting the main sex clubs and sex bars in New York City, we'd recommend first getting yourself involved with a BDSM club, or group, which will allow you to identify like-minded people and make some friends on the scene before getting involved with the BDSM club goings-on in the city. This way, you'll feel more comfortable with the bondage and blind-folded aspect of the fetish.

You can join several groups fairly easily, and some of which are online, which makes it easier if you are only stopping in New York for a few days. Fetishtribe.com is a brilliant online blog where people share details of what they're getting up to in New York, where best to go for specific forms of BDSM, alongside some over valuable BDSM New York tips. Fetishtribe.com also regularly organizes in-person meetings in sex clubs, the locations of which vary regularly, so you could maybe fit in attending such an event during your trip to the city. Set up an account on Fetishtribe.com and start making fetish buddies today.

NYC TNG is another popular BDSM New York fetish club, which focuses more on in-person meet-ups than online discussions. It is worth noting that this fetish group only permits members between the age of 18 and 35, so if you are over that age, maybe it would be best to look for a different group.

Fetlife is another online discussion board that features over 25,000 members based in New York and who like to share advice and tips on which sex club to go to satisfy your bondage desire while in New York. This website has individual sections for different fetishes and kinks, and you'll be able to find several that cater to BDSM-lovers therein.

Probably the oldest BDSM club in New York is The Eulenspiegel Society, which has a 40-year history of hosting lectures and seminars on the New York BDSM scene. This time, it has fulfilled many people's doubts about BDSM and given many rookies the confidence to get more actively involved in New York's colorful sex clubs scene.

Where to Find New York Sex Clubs

Perhaps you're only in New York for a flying visit and don't have time to meet up with BDSM clubs, and you want to get right to the sex clubs. Say you're only in the city for one night – it would be much easier to have a grasp of where the best New York fetish clubs are so that you can go straight to them and not waste any time. As we've mentioned, there are many BDSM bondage clubs to be found all over the city. Deciding which one to go to is just a case of what sort of BDSM you are looking for and what level of bondage experience you are at.

If you've never been to a BDSM club before, we'd recommend you go first to New York's infamous sex club Paddles, which is the ideal BDSM spot for absolute beginners. That's not to say well experienced in the fetish can't also attend, as there's plenty of different rooms full of different sex toys and BDSM-related equipment. This wide range of materials makes Paddles great for beginners, as you can experiment with various modes of BDSM on the same night and aren't forced into staying in one part of the club. Don't be afraid to give in to your wildest fetishes at Paddles, as this place truly has it all – right down to a specially designed chair that caters for foot fetishes. This New York sex dungeon has an alluring vibe, is very comfortable, and has a brilliant bar where you can chill out in between BDSM sessions.

Generally, the people in attendance at Paddles sex club are courteous and willing to make you feel comfortable if it is your first time. Of course, you'll get the odd person who makes you feel uncomfortable, but that's just New York for you.

However, if you're well experienced, Paddles New York Sex Club may appear a little tame for your tastes and doesn't really fulfill your masochistic needs. If you're looking to be treated badly in true BDSM fashion, you should go to Pandora's Box, where you'll be treated extra mean to gain extra satisfaction. With lots of different rooms and themed nights throughout the week, you are sure to experience something unique at Pandora's Box, where they treat BDSM-lovers exactly as they want to be treated -badly. If you are well-experienced in bondage, Pandora's Box is the one for you in terms of New York sex dungeons. Pandora's Box sex club is also recommended for people who like to switch between the submissive and dominant roles in BDSM.

If you want to take it up a notch. In that case, if you want to go to the BDSM max, you should attend some of the more extreme NYC sex bars, including Cakehole BDSM Club, Decadence, and Mistress Adrienne, each of which is particularly equipped to catering to the craziest of BDSM fetishes, while also providing a safe environment. Although these places are extreme and involve chains and whips, there are sex dungeon masters who monitor the rooms regularly to make sure that things don't get out of hand.

Sex Bars in New York City

A lot of the clubs we mentioned in the last section open late at night and only really get atmospheric around 3 am. If you don't fancy yourself as much of a night owl or don't like the sound of any of the clubs listed, there are also a wide variety of sex bars in New York City, which offer a more chilled out environment, with opening times that may cater more to your waking hours. These bars may not have the same variety of BDSM equipment, but they do have at least some facilities that'll satisfy your bondage urges.

House of Scorpio is one of the many secretive sex bars that many BDSM-enthusiasts attend regularly. It may be found at a secret location; however, the address isn't overly complex to obtain. All you must do is sign up on the website, and House of Scorpio will disclose the address to you via e-mail. It's a bar designed to cater to all types of fetishes under an anything consensual goes policy. They have several different special nights throughout the week, each targeted at a different fetish. It is also heralded as a great place to meet like-minded people. However, some nights may not meet your erotic expectations, particularly Lip Service, which runs every other Friday, which is just a place to go if you want to learn how to perfect your making out skills. Although on other nights, House of Scorpio does host other themed nights that are centered around how to satisfy your fetishes, as well as a particularly appealing 'Netflix and Chill' night. It's not one of the best sex places to go in New York, but it is ideal if you're looking for a place to get horny.

If you're looking for a sex bar that's fairly limited in terms of what you can get up to but still heavily BDSM themed, hit up the dive bar Double Down Saloon, which is a great place to go to get in the mood for a night of BDSM. Often showing BDSM pornography on the screens and known to attract people with the most extreme fetishes, Double Down Bar is a great place to go before hitting one of New York's more exotic sex bars. There a wide variety of other themed sex bars in New York City, including the likes of Boobie Trap, which is overflowing with sexual innuendos, right down to the cocktail names.

The Slipper Room is one of the most well-known burlesque bars in New York, but did you know that it also has BDSM nights? As if the parody wasn't hot enough, the Slipper Room hosts BDSM burlesque performances. Although you can't get involved yourself, seeing BDSM and acts of bondage performed live right in front of you is surely thrilling for any bondage-obsessives. It'll be sure to give you some ideas of what to try at the New York bondage clubs later. Slipper Club is a must-visit for anyone with interesting kinks, as you're sure to see things that'll arouse as much as they inspire you.